It’s Not You, It’s Me…
Saturday, July 28th, 2007One of the most important components to running a successful business is just that, running a business. It is sometimes hard to do so, but you have to leave your personal life out of it. A perfect example of this is including friends in your business ventures. If you can honestly analyze the situation and see that friend as a great contribution to the team, then bring them on. On the other hand, don’t just include them because they want to help and you don’t want to be mean. A person could be your best friend, but your worst business partner. Those two jobs do not include the same laundry list of qualifications and I think a lot of people don’t realize that.
Ok, so you decided to make your friend a business partner. Here comes a possibly awkward situation… contracts. Being good friends doesn’t mean they won’t try to screw you if given the chance. It’s human nature and you have to realize they will choose themselves over you any day. Therefore, put some checks and balances in place to avoid possible trouble. Things like a partnership agreement and restrictions on the bank account are a good start.
As I had mentioned in a previous post, Sally was removed as a partner in our company. In our agreement, we had planned how to handle that type of situation so it was simple and easy. Here is a list of some ideas to include in a partnership agreement:
- Name of the partnership and its members
- Contributions of each member
- Profit and loss allocation
- Authority and management responsibilities
- Adding or removing a partner
- How to resolve disputes
- Amending the partnership agreement
So when a friend asks you to be part of the business and you don’t think it’s a good idea, either try explaining it in a logical manner or use the infamous “it’s not you, it’s me…”